Lets look at the following examples:
A married man goes out and has an affair. He blames the wife for not satisfying his needs in bed. Did he ever stop to think that maybe his problem lies with him and not with his wife?
Your electricity gets turned off because you didnt pay the bill. Do you blame the mail man for not bringing the bill? Do you blame the electrical company, because you didnt receive the bill? You knew the bill was due. You pay it every month, dont you? It comes down to responsibility.
You join a website and the administrator bans you for breaking the terms of service. You blame the administrator? Why? You knew the rules of the website upon joining and had you not known the rules, you should have prepared yourself better by reading them.
Your daughter gets pregnant at 15. Let me guess you blame Britney Spears for influencing her to dress sexy. Yet you purchased the clothes for her and allowed her to wear them.
Your son gets suspended from school for fighting, drinking and drugs. You don’t take responsibility as the parent. You blame the child. Well don’t family values start at home? It is the rules that you set down and enforce that count.
When do we start taking responsibilities for our lives? We all have a responsibility to pay our bills, go to work, follow the rules and bring up our families within societal norms.
It is really unfortunate that we seem to be raising a generation of children that dont take responsibility for their actions either. They blame their friends, they blame their teachers, and they blame everyone around them, but never themselves.
When you feel you are mistreated, why is it that you just can’t seem to let go of it, get over it and move on with your life? If you feel someone has wrong you and doesn’t want to own up to the fact that they have mistreated you then there isn’t much that you can do about it.You need to accept that the person isnt going to see no wrong doing on their part, pick up your bruised ego and move on.
When do we learn as adults to be responsible for our own actions? When do we start living with the consequences of our decisions? Let go of blaming and being a victim. It serves no one. It sure doesnt help you. Has not excepting responsibility for your actions made you happy? It is time to admit your mistakes rather than blame someone else.
Being a responsible adult means that you accept credit when you do the right thing and accept correction when someone tells you that you have made a wrong choice in your life.
Were adults here and we want to be treated as such unless its not in our favor and then we want to blame someone else, anyone but ourselves.
I think it is time each of us assumed responsibility in life, by being liable for our actions and taking ownership of them. Please for goodness sake, stop making excuses for your life. When you have done wrong, admit to your mistakes and then move on.